Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Ready or Not?

Aiden's ready. I'm not.

Last year at this time, we drove a good hour plus two times a week for Aiden to attend the program at The River School in Washington D.C. It was well worth the drive, as the program there is PHENOMENAL, but I truly don't think Aiden was completely ready for it all. He was the youngest in the class (by a few months), he still wasn't walking, he wanted nothing to do with circle time, he'd cry almost every time I dropped him off, and would cling to me the rest of the afternoon after I picked him up. Yet, even with all this, he grew a lot, and I learned a lot, in the short three months he was there.

When we moved to Ohio, I decided to not enroll him in any type of preschool program, but to enjoy my every moment with him (most likely being my last child) and prepare him better for his preschool days. Plus, we moved into a county with an amazing early intervention program and were able to take advantage of many extras such as music therapy, Little Gym, multiple focus play groups, and a weekly toddler play group all funded by the program and still get in structured playtime with other kids his age.

I'm glad we made this decision. I LOVE my days with him and he's really come a LONG way. Today, he doesn't shed a tear when I drop him off for play group, he's talking SO much more, and receptively he understands so much more. He's done a complete 360 when it comes to keeping his attention to the task at hand and to structure all around. He's growing up. He's ready.

and not only is he ready socially, but very much cognitively as well.

WARNING - Mommy Brag Moment: he counts to 15, recognizes and names the numerals 0 to 10, knows all his shapes and identifies what shape an object is (i.e. his Lego table is a "sware"), knows all his colors, says the abcs, and can recognize and say around 7-10 letters, is completing simple patterns, etc.

My little explorer is ready to go, no matter how much his mommy is not ready to let him go.

I am so proud of him.

(note: turn off music to the right. and I apologize, but I am having trouble captioning right now, but will try again soon.)

this video was taken over a month ago.

and although I think I'm not ready to send him off, that I'll miss him terribly, that he's still too young, that he's my last child and I need to hold on to every.single.minute with him ... I'm sure it won't be TOO terribly hard to find the fun and joy of some mommy alone time.


When can he start?


leah said...

Look at him go! He's going to love preschool. He definitely seems ready- the playgroups and Little Gym were such a good idea!

Nolan is a "young three" with his August birthday and we have socialization issues- not sure if that is due to his shyness, hearing loss, age, or a combination of all three. He won't interact with peers (in the classroom) at all. I really wonder if he would have done better if we had held him for another year...

PolyglotMom said...

love it! great video! I can't believe how big he's getting! We'll get these boys together again someday. You have so much to be proud of!

Amy said...

Preschool? Aiden could practically teach preschool what with his counting like that and recognizing all his letters and numbers. WOW! I quit my job with the nice corporate paycheck so I could enjoy these precious years with my last child. I haven't regretted it for one minute. Time really flies doesn't it?

Unknown said...

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!He's doing amazing!!Go girl!!!!

Christian and Lily's Mommy said...

He's getting so big Tammy. We miss him everyday at school! Love you guys!